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After a busy day of an arranged marriage, the time comes for the couple to be alone together on their first night. Here are 10 first night stories of an arranged marriage sharing their unique experience of this special night. The first night of an arranged marriage is seen as a very curious time by many who are about to be married in this way or simply want to know what happens in these first night stories. Arranged marriage has taken place in South Asia for centuries from the days of the rajas and emperors to this very day.
It is the traditional way to people are set in the union of marriage for a life together, although love marriages where two people know each other prior to marriage are also becoming part of South Asian society. However, the most explored aspect of an arranged marriage is the first night together or suhagraat as it is known.
Especially, for two people who are complete strangers, never shared sexual intimacy and who may be virgins too. Arranged marriage and the first night of sex is of huge interest in terms of experiences, both good and bad, and stories which can help others who are very anxious about this intimate time.
We have collated 10 experiences of the first night stories of an arranged marriage and share with you the experiences of these newly wedded couples on their first night together in marriage. Both Meena and Harish had their marriage arranged in India by their parents.
They were not allowed to contact each other after the engagement. So, the first time they were together was on the wedding day. After a long day of ceremonies, night came and their first night First night stories of arranged marriages was ahead of them. Their bedroom was decorated nicely and they both entered. They were both very nervous and very anxious. This ended up in laughter and progressed to them into lying together on the bed.
Harish put his arms around Meena as she lay her head on his chest. At which point he moved over and kissed me, which felt like an electric current on my lips.
I was shaking but in a nice way. I moved away feeling very shy. Harish slowly continued helping Meena feel he was in no hurry, as he was experiencing and sharing everything with her for the first time too. Leading us both to proceed to consummate our marriage with our first sexual encounter.
We both certainly enjoyed our first time and we know it is just the start! After experiencing their first sexual intimacy, both Harish and Meena realised that it would only get better as their appreciation, love and affection for each other would grow in their arranged marriage. After such a long and busy day from a loud, colourful and wonderful Punjabi wedding Kulivr and her husband Surinder made their way to their wedding night suite, especially booked for them by close friends.
Kulvir got to know Surinder during a courtship of about 9 months after having their marriage arranged by family. They were both from different cities in the UK. So, they knew each other as well as they could but had vowed to spend First night stories of arranged marriages first night together on their wedding night.
The suite was beautiful with a large decorated bed, furniture and had complimentary fruit, champagne and chocolate gifts. Kulvir showered and changed into sexy lingerie she had specially bought for their first night. Surinder freshened up too and changed. They both spent time cuddling, laughing and chatting, whilst enjoying drinks.
The champagne eased their nerves which led them into exchanging kisses. She tasted delicious! Kulvir who had never been in an intimate relationship before enjoyed the attention from Surinder which engaged them into more sexual foreplay. As women do, I did think I hope he likes what he is discovering of me. As I became more physical with her, all I can say is she is the sexiest woman on earth! The two of them delved into their first night of sexual discovery and experienced each other physically.
Their first night left an impression on them both. But in our case, all I can say is — it was wonderful, adventurous and exciting. Surinder and Kulvir went on to build a very healthy and successful marriage bonded by strong intimacy as a reminder of their first night! The celebrations of their arranged marriage were tiring and full of attention.
So, to be finally alone on their first night, Shahid and Anam felt free from the crowd and spotlight. Their room was gorgeously decorated and the dim lights and rose petals on the bed awaited their company. Anam felt fearful of what was expected of her. As she sternly believed that her marital union was going to be the only time she committed herself to a man and was a virgin.
Shahid, however, had been in past relationships which never led to marriage. So, this time it was the real deal for him. Shahid approached Anam calmly as she sat on the bed and told her how beautiful she looked. Anam smiled and looked down. So, I did not know what to say or do. He was very understanding. Shahid told her that he did not expect anything from her and that sexual intimacy was something that should take place naturally between them. Without any pressure.
This relieved Anam a lot and led to her opening up to him as they chatted. Shahid embraced her and held her close. He kissed my forehead a few times and we cuddled and felt closer. So, I wanted it to be special and told Anam that we have our life ahead to be sexually intimate and our first night should not be marred by if it happens or not. As they laughed and chatted into the night getting to know each other, both of them were so relaxed that they eventually fell asleep. The next morning, they both woke up smiling at each other and realised that their first night was just as special without any sexual exchange, which was the reason for their anxiety to meet expectations.
I feel very lucky to be with such a wonderful man. Both of them went onto enjoy a married life with love, sex and intimacy which got better with time and communication. Siddharth Sharma who was Indian born lived and worked in America as an engineer. He had very little contact with India. His parents insisted on him having a wife from India. So, they arranged his marriage with Monica, the daughter of a family friend. She was an IT programmer and lived at home.
The wedding took place in India and was a typical affair with lots of people, food and colourful celebrations. He asked her if she had been in past relationships. Knowing that she was now my wife made it even more awkward. As the night went on, Siddharth did feel immense frustration. Monica was reluctant to respond and felt very apprehensive and scared. So, I did not want Siddharth to force me to do anything. So, he decided to stop trying and realised that physical intimacy needs time between them. He lied with her on the bed and they First night stories of arranged marriages a little until they fell asleep.
Siddharth went back to the US and eventually, Monica ed him there, which was when and where they really had their true first night together. This allowed us to develop our relationship. Monica and Siddharth had to give their relationship time to develop. A factor which is important in an arranged marriage. A Bangladeshi wedding involves many rituals and traditions and for Labiba and Mithun, not being familiar with many of them, their wedding day was very exhausting and tense. He is funny and loves to joke around. Their room had been decorated as per tradition with the bed having colourful garlands and flowers.
There drinks and snacks prepared and left for them. Both Labiba and Mithun had been in relationships in the past and were not virgins. But they were still very wary and anxious about being sexually intimate. For this was very different to their past experiences — they were husband and wife.
Mithun opened a bottle and began to pour a drink, he asked Labiba if she wanted one, to which she agreed. This helped start the conversation between them. They both felt pretty relaxed in the conversation and acknowledged that sexual intimacy would follow. Since it was not first time sex for them but the first time of sex in their marriage. Soon after, Mithun moved up to Labiba and started to kiss her. Labiba accepted his advance and began to respond to the intimacy. Sensual foreplay commenced between the two. I felt so right and as our lips met, we could not stop kissing which slowly led to more exploring.
We began to undress and were touching each other with strong emotions, pleasure and desire. Our passion ignited and physically we felt so very comfortable to have sex. Their first sexual rendezvous kindled a new beginning for them as a newly married couple, free to enjoy and please each other. Labiba freely gave herself to her husband on their first night together. Mithun had turned her into a woman. Because our first night became a special one to always remember.
The first night for Mithun and Labiba was the start of a sexual bond between them which developed and got stronger with time as their marriage blossomed. Nitin and Shruti Patel had a traditional Gujarati wedding with all the trimmings and no expenses spared. It was a lavish, big and fat Indian wedding in the UK. The marriage had been arranged by the fathers who knew each other for many years and both families wanted the best. Nitin was a computer professional and worked globally and Shruti did not study but helped with the family business.
So, they were two very different people in many ways. They got to know each other in varied conversations on the phone and met a few times for coffee.First night stories of arranged marriages
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